No one can deny that self-confidence is a very important quality to achieve success in life. In every person who has reached a certain point in life, you will see this quality, whether it is a film star, a cricketer, a person in your neighborhood or a teacher who teaches you. Confidence is one of the qualities that happens in everyone, someone in less and more in someone. But it is necessary to increase your present level of confidence to a new and improved level. And today I will share with you some similar things that can be helpful in increasing your self-confidence..
I myself felt like this, when I am in my best attire, then my confidence increases automatically, so whenever I have a presentation or interview I am very well prepared. Actually looking good gives you confidence to face people and unlike them you are very conscious when you are poorly dressed.
For example:
You can choose any field, it can be an art, music, dance, etc can be a game, there may be a subject or something in which your expertise can separate you from the crowd and make you a special place. This is not so difficult, you will already be better than many in some or the other, just by doing a little more work, become an expert in it, it will take a little while, but when you do this, everyone will respect you and you will be much more Feel confident.
And the person who becomes special in any field, is not worried about having less knowledge in other areas, think only whether Sachin Tendulkar will be disturbed by the fact that he did not study much ... never!
You can write these achievements in dairy and you can see them, especially if you want to boost your confidence. The best way to do this is to make some images related to these achievements in your mind and add them to a small movie and keep playing in this mind from time to time. Definitely this will help boost your confidence.
Friends, many times we have everything that we should be doing to do some work, but still we can not confidently do that work due to the fear of failure. Do not be scared of the fear of mistakes, they should be afraid that they do not even have the courage to try because of this fear. Take a look at the history of the successful people, and see that many failures will be hidden in the chaos of their success.
Do not hesitate to do anything, whether it is standing or questioning, or if you have to talk to many people, your slightest guts can increase your confidence several times. There is really a victory ahead of fear.
Friends, knowledge of English at some places such as job-interview can be important for your selection, but not for confidence, you can become even the most confident person in the world without going to English.
Some people do not feel confident because of any particular reason. As some people have stage-fear in them, then no one gets nervous in front of opposite sex. If you are also facing such a challenge then beat it. The best way to beat it is to do the activity that causes you to nervous so many times that it will become your strength. Make sure you try this effort, though some people may take lightly in the beginning and maybe even joke, but when you are constantly engaged in your efforts then those people will stand up for you and clap your hands.
One of the lines of Mahatma Gandhi has always inspired me very much. "First they will not pay attention to you, then they will laugh at you, then they will fight with you, and then you will win." Then you also let them ignore them, Let laugh, let's fight, but in the end you win. Because you are here to win, not to lose.
Preparation and self-confidence are directly proportional. The better preparation will be as good self-confidence. And when you succeed because of this preparation, this victory will become a chapter in the success story of your life which you can read repeatedly and boost your confidence.
1. Improve Dressing sense
How are you dress-up, its effect depends on your confidence. Let me tell you that here I am talking about common people like myself, great men like Mahatma Gandhi and Swami Vivekanand have nothing to do with this and if you come into this category then you too.I myself felt like this, when I am in my best attire, then my confidence increases automatically, so whenever I have a presentation or interview I am very well prepared. Actually looking good gives you confidence to face people and unlike them you are very conscious when you are poorly dressed.
2. Do those who thing which confident people do
People around you will surely see who you think will feel confident that this person is very confident. Look at such people carefully and include some of their activities in your life.For example:
- Sit on front seat.
- Give Questions / Answers in Class, Seminars, and Other Opportunities
- Pay attention to your walking and seating
- Do not speak in the sounded voice
- Eye contact, do not stare at sight.
3. Be better in one thing than others
Not everyone can become an expert in every field, but according to his interest he can choose one or two areas in which he can become better than others. While I was in school, many students were good at studying and other things, but I was the best in class in Mathematics and for this reason I was very confident. If you gain mastery in any one thing then it will make you in-general confidence. You just have to pick something according to your interest and it will have to be the best in your circle, your circle depends on you, it can be your school, college, your colony or your city.You can choose any field, it can be an art, music, dance, etc can be a game, there may be a subject or something in which your expertise can separate you from the crowd and make you a special place. This is not so difficult, you will already be better than many in some or the other, just by doing a little more work, become an expert in it, it will take a little while, but when you do this, everyone will respect you and you will be much more Feel confident.
And the person who becomes special in any field, is not worried about having less knowledge in other areas, think only whether Sachin Tendulkar will be disturbed by the fact that he did not study much ... never!
4. Remember your achievements
Your past achievements will help you feel confident. For example: You have ever come first in class, have done school top in any subject, have you win in singing completion or sports, have achieved a big target, are employees of the month. Anything that makes you feel good..You can write these achievements in dairy and you can see them, especially if you want to boost your confidence. The best way to do this is to make some images related to these achievements in your mind and add them to a small movie and keep playing in this mind from time to time. Definitely this will help boost your confidence.
5. Visualize that you are confident
Your strong thinking goes astray, so think of yourself as a confident person every day. Anyone can imagine, as if you are standing at some stage giving a speech to thousands of people, or giving a fantastic presentation in any seminar hall, and everyone is impressed with you, complimenting you everywhere. It is happening and people greet you by applause. Albert Einstein has also called imagination more powerful than knowledge; And you can do a great job by using this power.6. Do not be afraid to make mistakes
Do you know any person who has never made a mistake? Do not know, because making mistakes is the nature of man, and I would say that birth rights also exist. Use this right to you. Making a mistake is not wrong, it is wrong to repeat it. Unless you repeatedly repeat the same mistake repeatedly, you do not make a mistake unless you make an effort and learn something from the experience that happens from it.Friends, many times we have everything that we should be doing to do some work, but still we can not confidently do that work due to the fear of failure. Do not be scared of the fear of mistakes, they should be afraid that they do not even have the courage to try because of this fear. Take a look at the history of the successful people, and see that many failures will be hidden in the chaos of their success.
Do not hesitate to do anything, whether it is standing or questioning, or if you have to talk to many people, your slightest guts can increase your confidence several times. There is really a victory ahead of fear.
7. Do not excuse knowing English for low confidence
English is dominated by our country. I also consider the knowledge of English as necessary, but only because of its knowledge you can read many good books, blogs, etc, you can see more than one program, movies, etc. But is knowledge of this language necessary to be confident? Knowing English can make you even more confident, but it is not necessary to be confident. The purpose of any language is to express your thoughts in words, and if you can do the same work in another language, then you do not have the obligation to learn English.Friends, knowledge of English at some places such as job-interview can be important for your selection, but not for confidence, you can become even the most confident person in the world without going to English.
8. Do something that reduces your self-confidence
Some people do not feel confident because of any particular reason. As some people have stage-fear in them, then no one gets nervous in front of opposite sex. If you are also facing such a challenge then beat it. The best way to beat it is to do the activity that causes you to nervous so many times that it will become your strength. Make sure you try this effort, though some people may take lightly in the beginning and maybe even joke, but when you are constantly engaged in your efforts then those people will stand up for you and clap your hands.One of the lines of Mahatma Gandhi has always inspired me very much. "First they will not pay attention to you, then they will laugh at you, then they will fight with you, and then you will win." Then you also let them ignore them, Let laugh, let's fight, but in the end you win. Because you are here to win, not to lose.
9. Make special preparations for special occasions
Whenever you have a chance to prove yourself before you, take full advantage of it. For example: You are participating in any debate, quiz, dance or singing competition, doing any exam, or you are presenting a presentation, or organizing a program. For every such occasion, join it with full effort and just make sure that you did not keep any shortcomings in preparation, no matter what the result, no one can lift your finger on your preparation.Preparation and self-confidence are directly proportional. The better preparation will be as good self-confidence. And when you succeed because of this preparation, this victory will become a chapter in the success story of your life which you can read repeatedly and boost your confidence.
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